Our sexual selves – how we express our identities, and who are attracted to – can be a big part of who we are.
While it may seem a bit funny at first, open and honest communication about your sexual activity between you and your provider will lead to better and more specialized care.
How to start the conversation
- I want to tell you that I have been having sex because I’ve heard that it’s important for you to know for supporting my health.
- I have some questions about sex. Is it supposed to hurt the first time you have sex? Can you get pregnant the first time?
- I had sex without a condom, and I don't know what to do. How can I get tested for STIs and pregnancy?
- A condom broke while I was having sex. What should I do?
- I think I am pregnant, but I do not want to be. What can I do about this?
- I think I am pregnant, but I am not ready to have a child. What can I do now?
- How can I tell my parents that I am pregnant?
