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Healthy communication

Open and honest communication is vital to healthy relationships with friends, family, and romantic partners.

Communication is a central part of how all relationships in your life work, and practicing good communication can help make you and the people you care about feel supported and loved.

Healthy communication is open and honest and allows you to share difficult things with the other person. It can be easy to talk when you are having a good time and things are going smoothly, but it can be much harder to practice good communication when you’re either not agreeing or fighting. In a relationship with healthy communication you can talk to each other and really listen without judgement, even when you have different perspectives or opinions.

Healthy communication is made up of three things:

  1. You and your partner(s) feel comfortable voicing your opinions
  2. You and your partner listen and consider each other’s view points
  3. You and your partner feel comfortable disagreeing with each other and work together to resolve any issues

Relationships where you are comfortable speaking your mind are the spaces where you are able to be your authentic self.

Your desire and ability to open up or be vulnerable only increases when you and your partner both listen to each other’s perspectives. Feeling comfortable listening and speaking honestly is important in every type of relationship, including with friends, parents, other family members, coaches, and romantic partners.

How can you practice good communication skills? Swipe through below for tips for healthy communication in difficult situations.


Find the Right Time for Conversations
Finding the right time to have a conversation with someone, especially if it’s a sensitive or important conversation, will allow both of you to share in a calm, stress-free environment without distractions. 
Be Honest
Sometimes it can be hard to be fully honest about your feelings, especially negative ones. But being honest, and trusting the other person with that information, gives them the opportunity to understand your thoughts and feelings.
Be aware of body language
How you hold your body during a conversation can speak volumes to the other person. Face the other person, and keep comfortable eye contact. Show genuine attention and interest through open body posture (not crossing arms) and nodding or otherwise acknowledging the things they are saying.
Speak Your (own) Truth
Speaking from your point of view allows the other person to focus on and understand how you feel, and how they may have contributed to how you feel. For example, try using “I” statements, such as “I feel like we have not had enough time for each other lately”.
Take a Break
If emotions become overwhelming, each person may be more focused on getting their opinion across, and less focused on listening. Taking a 5- or 10-minute break can help make sure everyone is heard.
Make your requests clear
How you say something matters just as much as what you say. If you have a need from the other person, ask them to make a change instead of stating what they’re doing or not doing. (e.g. Instead of, “I hate when you leave things lying around when you come over”, you could try, “I feel stressed when there's stuff lying around my room. Can you try and keep your stuff more organized?”)
Clarify
If you do not understand something, ask for clarification. Try to not assume what the person means. Asking for clarification is also a good way for the other person to know that you are listening to them.

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